Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Cuffin

Before the debate on cuffin can take place first you must know what i mean by it. Cuffin, as suggested by his name, draws similarities to the apprehension of a criminal. Cuffin takes place when 1 party, usually a female becomes chained to(handcuffed) a male. This means that they cannot be separated. If you know where 1 is you have no doubt where the other is. This is the art of being cuffed, inescapable without the help of a locksmith or the abilities of Houdini.

Simply having a girlfriend, wifey, wife, fbuddy, or jumpoff does not mean that your being cuffed or cuffin. I have no issue with these kinds of relationships as they r necessary, fun, or law binding in their respective cases. I also have no issues with fulfilling ur obligations when ur in these situations. Who can argue with a guy seeing his gf a few times a week? I certainly cannot. The problem lies when it becomes necessary 4 others to set up visitation...supervised visitation. When chillin wit a homie means, talkin through the telephone seperated by a glass as the officer looks on (its a metaphor). Now its ok 4 shawty to chill wit occasionally, but not all the time. they is stuff ppl cant talk bout bcuz homegirl is there. 2ndly, the dude always gonna consider makin u comfortable, further bein a detriment 2 the stay. But seriously, its cool 2 b there a lot, but not all the time. When nigas go 2 a party, they should b able to dance wit whoeva as u should b able 2 dance wit whoeva. its a party, u want 2 dance wit each other, stay home and put music on.

How can u tell if your being cuffed? ask yourself these questions. Whens the last time i seen my mate? When's the last time i seen my crew? Whens the last time i seen my crew without my mate? U should be able to figure out by the answers to these questions whether or not ur cuffed.


Awani out

2 comments:

  1. That cud never be me since im usually ashamed of my significant other in some way that i dont want them newhere near my friends and I get tired of people so I couldn't be with someone every single day. Plus just cause your in a relationship doesnt mean you need to be attached at the hip with that person, you can still do things separately and have a good relationship....smh at cuffers

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